A Marine’s Struggle: Family says John David Chapman is a War Casualty that Died in the Upstate

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    Only 23 years old, John David Chapman of Laurens County, had seen more than most people in an entire lifetime. His grandmother said, he is another casualty of war.

    “I very proudly went to his graduation to see him. It made me proud, but sad too,“ said Betty Chapman.

    John Chapman served three years in Iraq, the first one because he had to. His dad David said the next two, John volunteered for, to help his fellow Marines. But since since he returned home, David said John had struggled with depression and post traumatic stress disorder.

    “Nobody knows but them what they’ve gone through,“ said David. “Somebody else experiencing it, that’s been there, who understands can help them better than someone who doesn’t.“

    Both David and Betty said they recently convinced John to get counseling through the VFW, and tried to offer him support.

    “You take an 18 or 19 year old boy and let him see people killed. That’s something you have to live with. And people, killing people. They’ve got to live with that,“ said Betty Chapman.

    But living with that,  wasn’t something John David Chapman could do.
    His father said John was last seen Sunday, they later found a suicide note and Wednesday, John’s grandfather found him hanging from a tree in the woods across from his home.
 
    “She told me David, they found him. And I thought he may be alive. But he wasn’t,“ said David.

    The Chapman family called News Channel 7 hoping their story, could help others.

    “When they come back, they need help,“ said Betty. “They should have to have counseling when they come back whether they ask for it or not.“

    They would like to see more programs to help our veterans and for families to recognize the signs of depression.

    “He needed that help,“ said David.

    They say some casualties of war, die right here at home.

 
    If you need help, there are resources available.
    The Department of Veterans Affairs Vet Center Program operates a system of counseling centers for veterans who have served in combat.
    There is a vet center in Greenville. Just call 864-271-2711 for help.


    The Chapman family was also concerned by how the Laurens County Sheriff’s Office handled this case, after they called to report John missing, and showed them the note he left behind.
    News Channel 7 called the Sheriff’s Office and a spokesperson said when they were called Monday, a deputy went out to the home, Chapman was entered into the National Crime and Information Center as a missing person, and they issued a BOLO, be on the lookout.
    The spokesperson said Tuesday, they walked the area around the home searching for Chapman, notified the media he was missing and posted his photo and information him on the county’s website, www.golaurens.com.
    Chapman’s body was found Wednesday, around 10 a.m.

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Flag Comment Posted by MIKEDALTON on July 20, 2009 at 6:11 pm

Cpl.John David Chapman I thank you sir for ever thing you had done for me and my family. We stood for you Sunday after noon to honer you CPL. Chapman. We had around 90 bikes and 3 cars and a flag truck so we could stand for you. we had around 120 Patriot to show to horner you. I am happy to do this for you and your family. To stand for a Patriot that has done more then he was ask to do in asking to go back 2 times on his on needs to be honer more then we could ever do. I wish that the USA could do more for your family.

Flag Comment Posted by TheSwabbie on July 17, 2009 at 3:55 pm

My heart goes out to the family of this fine young Marine. I am saddened beyond words at his loss. Marine, you may now stand down and stand at ease. Your brothers have the watch outside the wire. You served your Country well and she will forever remember your sacrifice. May the Lord himself comfort all those who grieve and wipe away the tears with His strong but gentle hand. God Bless. A brother Sailor..

Flag Comment Posted by MIKEDALTON on July 16, 2009 at 9:54 pm

CPL JOHN DAVID CHAPMAN PLASE CPL. IT IS YOUR TIME TO STAND DOWN NOW FOR YOU HAVE GONE TO A BETTER PLACE THAT HAS ALL OF THE HEALING THAT YOU NEED. YOU WILL BE A HERO TO THE USA AN TO ME CPL. CHAPMAN . I WE BE THERE TH HONOR YOU I NWILL BE GLAD TO STAND WITH THE AMERICAN FLAG AT THE DOOR SO EVER ONE WILL KNOW THAT YOU GAVE YOUR LIFE FOR US. THANK YOU .I WISH I HAD KNOWEN YOU SO THAT WE COULD TALK WE WOULD HAVE SO MUCH TO TALK ABOUT. MR. CHAPMAN PLASE SIR HOLD YOUR HEAD UP AND BE PROUD OF THE SON YOU HAVE FOR YOU HAVE NOT LOSS HIM HE WILL ALWAYS BE THERE WATCHING YOU SIR. I AM SORRY I WOULD LIKE TO SEND YOU A WARM CONDNLENCE.  MIKE DALTON 864-349-3806 ANYTIME, IF YOU NEED ANY THING LET ME MORE I WILL SEE WHAT I CAN DO TO HELP. WE WILL BE THERE ROLLING THUNDER CHAPTER 2 SPARTANBURG SC AND THE PGR.

Flag Comment Posted by dreameryoung38 on July 16, 2009 at 2:36 pm

I as a exmilitary saw what damage can do to a person having to endure the attrocoties of having to deal with fighting in a war seeing death around you.My brother in law,a big man before the war came back half of a man.He’d lost so much weight it was scary.The stories told by my ex-reserve members can imagine that this was tough on them.My prayers go toward the family

Flag Comment Posted by Lighthouse Couseling, LLC on July 16, 2009 at 1:40 pm

To the family of this brave and suffering young man, I would like to send my warmest condolence. It is a ashame that our men and women at arms has so much mental and emotional trauma to bear. Many of these suffering with PTSD, go without any help at all. I am a Christian Counselor with training and experience in Stress and Trauma with Military Applications. I offer help to our troops and their families suffering with marital discord and PTSD. Please feel free to visit my web site at www.hissoulcare.com for more information.

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